A thought just came in my mind and I wanted to share this with you ladies...
Why do we as women constantly allow silly comments to torture us? Our minds always goes off in a different place and when a negative comment comes our way...we just allow it to come through and take control.
I carried on thinking on it and thought about coffee - when you make strong coffee (not instant) it is filtered so there are no bits in it.
Imagine ourselves as that coffee...when we allow negative comments to go through with no filter we will have the coffee bits. And the more we let in the more we are filled with bits to the point that we are filled with them.
We women allow this to happen all the time and the more we try to empty ourselves the more we allow...
Why is this? Because we do not have a filter. It's time to get one! Imagine your brain having a filter that only allows good comments in. Empty and rid yourself of all negativity and then go on to installing the filter. Trust me when you will see your attitude towards yourself will change.
The minute you stop allowing others to have control over how you look at yourself - that is the moment you take the first step to being comfortable in your own skin.
Throw out the dirt and install a filter!
Love and Hugs
Tillyah
